40 year old woman dating a 60 year old man
In fact, putting it another way: If I loved someone I would want them to enjoy their active years and not be held back in any way by my own challenges as I entered my 80s and beyond.
— As a dating coach for single women over 40, one of the first questions I ask a client is, “What’s your biggest problem in dating? I recently asked a group of about 300 single, divorced, and widowed women over 40 what their biggest problems were in dating. But when a man rushes sex, women often feel objectified.
If those words made you cringe, I’m sorry, but I’m just trying to be as direct as possible. Any way you want to look at it, complications such as down syndrome and miscarriages in pregnancy rise with age.
If that sounds too old, remember that in 10 years you will be in that age group and your honey will only be in her late 40s.
Personally, when I get a backache I like the idea that my partner not only understands, but empathizes.
But more than that, unless I was convinced that my partner was capable of extraordinary foresight, great love and sacrifice, I would, to be frank, worry about being dumped or cheated on as I entered my old age, and my partner was in the prime of life.
This formula has somehow become the definitive rule for the youngest age of a woman a man can date. So much so, that they don’t go after women they’re actually interested in.
This taboo makes some of my clients feel shameful about their age preferences.
Q: I’m 63 years old and have been divorced for 19 years.